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Why I Support Planned Parenthood

by Rachel on February 2, 2012

In April of 2004, at the age of 18, I got on a bus in Flint, Michigan with one of my good friends, an outspoken, proudly-liberal ally at our somewhat-sheltered Catholic school. We stayed on said bus with a bunch of strangers for a day and a half  until we ended up in Washington, D.C., where we proceeded to take part in the March for Women’s Lives, a protest for reproductive rights. Though it was put on by NOW, I had heard about it through Planned Parenthood.

Once in DC, we marched with men and women from all over the country. We saw Hillary Clinton speak and saw Ashley Judd rocking her “This Is What a Feminist Looks Like” T-shirt. The whole event was incredibly exciting and inspiring and I was so proud to be a part of it. It was just amazing to see what women could do when they believed in a cause.

Despite the recent news that the Susan G. Komen Foundation had announced it would no longer fund Planned Parenthood — a move the organization claims has nothing to do with politics or pressure from pro-life groups — I’m actually feeling incredibly inspired right now like I was back in 2004. And proud of women. Because the backlash? Has been fast and loud and ultimately effective — according to the Washington Post, ‎“Donors reacting to the Susan G. Komen Foundation’s decision to cut off funding to Planned Parenthood contributed $650,000 in 24 hours, nearly enough to replace last year’s Komen funding, Planned Parenthood executives said Wednesday.”

I made a donation. (You can donate here.) It’s not just to show that I support Planned Parenthood; it’s because I just was thinking today how much I’ve benefited from Planned Parenthood and I want to make sure other people are able to do so going forward.

I don’t know when exactly I decided that everything my school wasn’t teaching me about sex was absurd, but I do remember torturing my poor history of Catholicism teacher with extremely loud tales of visiting Planned Parenthood my sophomore year at the beginning of class, and I wrote a couple passionate essays about it in health class senior year (which were, unsurprisingly, not well-received). I had my first pap smear at Planned Parenthood and went there for several years for annual exams, birth control, and STD tests. (Including the time I was 100 percent sure I had syphilis and nearly failed my summer math class because I was so worked up about it. I called all the Planned Parenthoods in the city frantically until they opened — I think this happened on their late-start day — and then demanded an appointment that afternoon, before my big exam. After a day too hysterical to study, the whole thing eventually culminated in them saying, “So…this is what an ingrown hair looks like…” Can I submit that to Planned Parenthood Saved Me? I mean, they saved me from another second of my own crazy.)

Every time I moved to a new city (which has been fairly frequent in the past seven-ish years) and needed to find a new doctor for my annual exam or for my birth control prescription, I Googled a Planned Parenthood. Finding a new doctor when you’re in a new city sucks, and I have always been able to count on Planned Parenthood. But really, I love Planned Parenthood because they make myself and other women feel just a little more secure in those moments when we have a problem far worse than not having a doctor in a new hometown: they are there for women when we are not only wondering what the hell is going on with our bodies, but when we know we cannot afford to find out or get treatment. (A position I’m basically in right now with my insurance transition and wayward egg chute, BTW.)

So I love Planned Parenthood and I’m thrilled to see that many other young women do too. But the most inspiring part of all of this was not, for me, the myrid angry Facebook status updates and tweets from young women, though that was pretty nice to see. It was actually reading about Mollie Williams, a top SGK official who resigned over this whole thing. I really want to know more about her. I mean, that must have been scary. I would have been scared; having a job is pretty nice. But damn, that sends a message. Damn, I’d love to know what was said in the meetings leading up to it. She’s released a statement on her resignation, but I’d really like for her to release a statement on how she got to be so badass.

And as for SGK…well, I’m a little disappointed, but I don’t feel all that surprised, which is actually quite sad. I mean, I’m surprised from a PR standpoint because OMG YOU MADE PINK RIBBONS UBIQUITOUS SO YOU CLEARLY HAVE A GOOD MARKETING TEAM AND I KNOW THEY MUST HAVE SEEN THIS SHIT STORM COMING but I’m not really surprised. I don’t know, there’s just something kind of disingenuous about all that pink. I wrote a couple Octobers ago about the issues I have with Breast Cancer Awareness month; it just gives me this sort of queasy feeling I can’t put my finger on. I don’t doubt that they have helped many women; I just wonder how many businesses they’ve helped in the process, and how many more women could have been helped if “going pink” had played out differently. I mean, this is the organization that partnered up with KFC for “Buckets for the Cure.” Come the fuck on.

I’ve always supported Planned Parenthood, but not as vocally as I could have in the past couple years. So my thanks to you, Susan G. Komen foundation, for reminding me to use my voice — and my wallet — for women’s health. I know that was your mission and despite your questionable way of getting there, well, here I am. So…nice work.

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Last fall, I started taking on a lot more responsibilities and had to face the reality that fitting in everything I wanted to do was going to be a challenge. One way that I’ve made it a little bit easier is working out midday as often as possible. It took a bit of trial and error to make a lunch workout work for me, but now that I have a routine down, I’m loving it. Here are some tips if you’re considering it.

Choosing the Right Workout

When it comes to where you work out and what type of workout you can do, it’s important to be flexible. Before you write off the possibility of doing a midday workout, consider that there are a lot of ways you might be able to pull this off. First, consider multiple locations. I live close to work, so I can run home and work out there if I’m so inclined. Leah used to go to an empty office in her building and would simply shut the door and do a DVD on her laptop. You can also go to a park or nice area near your office to walk or strength train. And if you’re still trying to find a gym or a yoga studio, look at options around your office. I’ve learned that it’s way more convenient for a gym/workout studio to be close to work than close to home, no matter what time of day I go. Eric and I both have joined workout studios closer to our offices than home and are having a lot more succes this way.

You’ll also need to keep an open mind when it comes to working out at lunch. I used to think I couldn’t ever pull this off because my idea of working out involved running crazy intervals for 60 minutes or kicking my own ass in spin class. Yeah, those aren’t really good lunch workouts. So what is a good lunch workout? I like walking, strength training, Core Fusion, pilates, or yoga. These workouts leave you less sweaty than other workouts, can be done in 30-45 minutes, and the last three come with a bonus — you don’t have to worry about packing shoes, socks, or a sports bra!

If you aren’t doing any of those types of workouts, then this is a good time to start. (I mean, why aren’t you strength training? You should definitely be doing some kind of strength training.) I used to think these types of workouts didn’t “count,” so I didn’t want to bother. But doing a workout that is less intense than your favorite spin class twice a week is better than not making it to your favorite spin class because you got stuck working late or wanted to go to happy hour instead. And furthermore, getting yourself to commit to workouts like these because they are the only workouts that work with your schedule is a great way to see that, Oh, yeah — they totally count.

Planning Your Day Around Your Workout

A lunch workout isn’t a huge hassle, but it definitely takes some pre-planning.

First, I pack a lunch to eat at my desk and try to pick a lunch that doesn’t involve a ton of prep work. I realized that any lunch that requires me to go back to the microwave to stir it four times isn’t a good lunch for days I’m working out. If I waste too much time running between my desk, the fridge, and the microwave, I don’t feel like I’m really working through lunch.

Second, I wear as much of my workout gear as I can to work which has been super helpful. I have a short drive to my yoga studio, so the less time I spend changing, the better. My go-to outfit on workout days is ankle-length black workout leggings, a long black workout tank top, some sort of work-appropriate outer layer (like an oversized button-down or long cardigan or wrap), and riding boots. Depending on your office’s dress code, you may only be able to wear your workout leggings under your dress, but that’s a good start. Sometimes I throw a scarf on over everything too; I’ve found that the more layers I have going on, the less likely anyone is to notice that I’m wearing workout clothes at the core. (I actually do this even when I work out in the evening, just because it saves a step after work, and also because I can’t afford nice workout clothes and nice work clothes, so it’s easier to buy items that work for both. (I actually do this even when I work out in the evening, just because it saves a step after work. Also, I can’t afford nice workout clothes and nice work clothes, so it makes sense to me to buy items that work for both.)

Dealing with the Sweat Factor

I know it can seem gross to come back to your desk right after working out, and it is a little…but it’s not unbearable.

The biggest concern for a lot of women is their hair, and, well, I get that. The best thing I’ve found is to just keep my hair down as much as possible during my workout. I know you don’t think you can work out with your hair down, but at least give it a try. If you’re doing a more low-key workout, it shouldn’t be too bad. If I must put my hair up (like during inversions when it starts to fall in my face), I just twist it up loosely with a scrunchie and then take it out as soon as that part of class ends. That way it doesn’t get bends or bumps in it. (And yes, this means I keep a scrunchie on my wrist at all times and then feel super cool if I pretend that it’s 1994.) Your roots might get a little sweaty, but they will dry. Again, figuring out what will work for your hair takes a little trial and error; some people find sweat bands help a lot while others will want to quickly blow dry their bangs.

In terms of cleaning up after my workout, I keep baby wipes and deodorant in my desk. I always pack a second pair of underwear to change into after class, and often bring a second pair of leggings if there’s a chance I’m going to get really sweaty.

I used to spend more time cleaning up when I got back to the office, touching up my makeup and trying to fix my hair, but I’m kinda over it at this point. I’ve become OK with just being slightly damp and I’ve realized that if I spend the second half of my day with less-than-perfect hair, it’s fine. As long as I don’t have mascara running down my face, I’m not that concerned. And usually I find that working out midday gives me a healthy, natural glow and sweat can give me the same beachy hair as saltwater spray.

I usually do two lunch workouts a week and this has made it much easier for me to meet my four-workouts-a-week fitness goal. While going out and grabbing lunch or gossiping with co-workers in the break room can be a nice break in the day, I find that going and getting my blood flowing is so much better for my body and mind.

Any other lunchtime exercisers out there? Please share your tips! 

PS There is new giveaway for free bottles of Trop50 and a $50 Visa gift card on The Life page! 

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The Stages of Weight Loss Grief on SHAPE.com

by Rachel on January 17, 2012

Yesterday I had an article I wrote for SHAPE.com published. This is really exciting for me for a couple reasons — partially because writing for a magazine is a longtime dream of mine, but mainly because I’m really proud of the content of this article.

The Stages of Getting Weight Loss Grief” is based on a blog video I made a couple years ago and it’s basically about how other people react to your weight loss. As something of a professional Before & After, I’ve been through all the stages and it’s something I hear about pretty often from my friends/family members who make healthy changes in their lives. The piece is funny, but for me, it touched on a real issue of feeling self-conscious and even guilty about your new body and all the attention you’re suddenly getting.

I was thrilled to see my post on the SHAPE website, but I was even more excited to read all the comments on their Facebook page. It was a bit sad — if unsurprising — to see how many women related to the article, but it was also really gratifying to feel like I gave them something of a defense that they could send along to unsupportive people; a lighthearted way to say, “Hey, what you’re doing really isn’t OK.”

If you haven’t read the article, I’d love for you to check it out, and I’d love to hear your thoughts on why bodies — especially changed bodies — become fair game for this kind of attention and gossip. It’s clearly something that many people who have made healthy changes in their lives have experienced, but now that I’ve talked about it as a problem, I’m really wondering about the reasons for it.

What say you?

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Lesson #115: How to Bribe Yourself to Work Out

January 5, 2012
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With goals on everyone’s minds this week, it’s a good time to talk about rewards. After all, the bribery process is part of the planning process, right? To be honest, I didn’t used to get motivated by rewards. Or at least not tangible ones. You’d think that because I’m materialistic, I’d do anything to earn [...]

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The Four Species of Resolutionaries

January 3, 2012

It’s that time of year again: the Resolutionaries have invaded our gyms! For everyone who waited an extra 30 minutes tonight for the treadmill…this video bears repeating.

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Lemme Work It: Ten Workout Excuses I Made Today

December 13, 2011
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It’s been two months since I’ve been to my yoga studio and the running thing in November? Uh…didn’t happen. While I’ve still been somewhat active, I was missing yoga in a major way. And yet every time I’d try to get myself to go back…this shit happens: 1. But I don’t want to spend all [...]

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Lesson #104: How I Finally Got it Up for Yoga

September 20, 2011
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Last night, I completed my 16th yoga class in one month, so I officially hit my “four times a week for an entire month” goal. This is a really big deal for me because I’ve never been able to get it up for yoga before. Or I would get it up and I’d take a [...]

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Lesson #101: How to Lose Weight & Get in Shape in the Fall

September 8, 2011
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It’s a new season so you know what that means — it’s time for everyone to start telling you how to lose weight by taking advantage of all the great things about that season. And you know what? Most of those tips are completely ridiculous and improbable. But I’m not one to miss out on [...]

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Lesson #99: How to Make Working Out Your Hobby

August 23, 2011
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If you played sports in middle school or high school, then you probably already have experience with exercise as a hobby. Think about it: in high school, we never thought, “Ugh, I have to go work out for three hours tonight.” No…you just went to practice. You liked going. Your friends were there. You wanted [...]

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Lemme Work It…Kinda (Or, How I Stopped Working Out Without Becoming Unhealthy)

July 26, 2011
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Last week, I alluded to the fact that I don’t do workout/meal posts like I used to because I don’t really work out like I used to. I definitely don’t work out like I used to but I also haven’t gained weight and I don’t feel unhealthy. Today I wanted to share a bit more [...]

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